Distracted

I raised four kids, spent years taking care of my mother, have survived illness and grief and various other disasters, so when I say that I consider myself not easily distracted, I mean it. Come hell or high water or Super Storm Sandy, I get up at 6:00 a.m. and work on my novel. But this past week a momentous event happened in my life, and for the first time I can remember, I simply could not get my mind to focus. This event was my little granddaughter’s baptism.

Beautiful baptism gown hand-sewn by Sandra Brennan (my fellow grandmother)

Over the past week my daughter, son-in-law and little granddaughter arrived. My son and his girlfriend flew in from London. My other son arrived, but his wife got sick, and so I was worried about her. My sister-in-law flew in from Colorado and 40 plus other friends and relatives converged. Meanwhile my husband and I raced to make our house as clean as possible. We assembled food, cleaned dishes, cleaned dishes, cleaned dishes. And I sat on the floor and played with my granddaughter. My mind went right out the window.

I figured that I would move my wake-up time to 5:00 a.m., and that way I’d be able to get in a little writing time before my granddaughter woke up. That did sort of work, although I did keep finding myself with my head on the computer, eyes closed.

Then, finally, I realized there are times in life you just have to embrace the moment. Writing is about joy, and it’s important to tap into that. So I relaxed, which is not something I do a lot. I drank in all the distractions. I had a lot of fun, and the baptism was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen.

This morning, my son and his girlfriend left for London at 5 a.m. I crept upstairs. Everything is quiet again. Dogs at my feet. Mind focused. And I wrote. Heart full of joy.

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Susan Breen is the author of the Maggie Dove mystery series. Her stories have been published in Alfred Hitchcock’s Mystery Magazine and Ellery Queen’s Mystery Magazine. She teaches novel-writing at Gotham Writers and is on the staff of the New York Pitch Conference. www.susanjbreen.com

4 comments

  1. Susan,
    Although it was a distraction from your routine it sounds wonderful.

    Giving up a few days of writing to be surrounded by your family for the baptism of your granddaughter sounds like a good trade off to me.

  2. For people like me with ADHD structured systems for writing don’t really work, Distractions are more than distractions they keep my brain stimulated. I find therefore that deadlines work more effectively. I do a lot of professional writing (mental health) and agree to deadlines I have to meet. As the time approaches I become more anxious and then more focused and can write for longer periods of time.

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